FREE MINI-COURSE: The First 72 Hours After a Marriage Crisis
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When your marriage is falling apart, you want answers.
Why is this happening?
What did I do?
Can this still be saved?
In this episode, I take live calls from people asking exactly those questions.
Michael's wife filed for divorce and moved another man into their house. He's praying every day and doesn't know what else to do. My answer? Stop focusing on her. Focus on you. Be strong, calm, and gentle. And if you have to fight the divorce, fight it because you love her, not because you want to punish her.
Jessica's husband wants a separation, and the reasons he's giving don't add up. So how do you get to the real one? You ask again. You don't get defensive. And you understand that the way you start that conversation decides how it ends.
Stan wants to know if an affair can change someone's attachment style. Short answer: yes. The better news? It can change back. But only through repair.
Three different stories.
Same patterns.
You'll probably hear yours in at least one of them.
If your spouse just said “I love you, but I'm not in love with you,” or “I want a divorce,” start with the free mini-course at the top of this description. It doesn't matter if that happened three days ago or three years ago. The principles still apply.
Until next week, stay strong.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
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