It Starts With Attraction: Episode 4
The Most Important Part of Attraction for a Long-Lasting Relationship
Want to know the most important part of attraction for a long-lasting relationship? It’s simple…but it’s not necessarily easy. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam breaks down what he has seen work in thousands of couples to build emotional attraction and create strong, healthy relationships.
When we examine emotional attraction in any established relationship, we think of this attraction in two types of actions: through things we stop doing, and by things we start doing. Since we can’t build a relationship on what we’re not doing, it becomes more urgent to look at what we’re doing; how we’re providing for another person’s emotional needs.
The golden rule, “Do to others as you’d like them to do to you” doesn’t always hold true in emotional attraction. We’re not made to need or want the same things. We are made to build others up according to their needs, not our needs
In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam unpacks the best things you can do to become the most emotionally attractive you can be and strengthen your relationship for years to come.
Today’s Guest: Dr. Joe Beam
Dr. Beam is an internationally known and respected sexologist and authority on love, marriage and sex. He received his PhD from the University of Sydney. He is the founder and chair of Marriage Helper based in Tennessee, just south of Nashville.
He has designed and developed courses, workshops, and seminars to help troubled marriages for over two decades. He has been seen on nationwide media and spoken to countless couples through live seminars, dedicated radio programs and books.
Website: www.MarriageHelper.com
YouTube: Marriage Helper
Podcast: Marriage Helper Live
Books: The Art of Falling in Love
You’ll Learn:
* How to know if you are getting what you need emotionally
* How to identify what your emotional needs are
* How to change your feelings of resentment
* When to put up a stop or boundary in your relationship
* How to know if your significant other is demanding too much of you?
* How to analyze if your emotional demands are too much
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