It Starts With Attraction: Episode 18
Changing The Conversation
Have you ever been in a conversation where you find yourself becoming more and more frustrated?
There are a lot of conversations, or talking back and forth to each other, going on in the world right now. A lot of people are talking and responding, but is a conversation actually happening? This communication is ultimately leading to confusion, anger, and division in relationships– even relationships we hold nearest and dearest.
In today’s episode, find out how to change the conversation to be meaningful. Learn how to talk so that others understand you and to listen so that others feel heard. After listening to this podcast, you will understand how to have a conversation that brings confidence, connection, and compassion.
Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes
Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.
Website: www.PIESUniversity.com
You’ll Learn
- The difference between talking and having a conversation
- 5 things to do now to change your conversations
- How to listen so that others feel heard
- How to talk so that others understand you
Ep 018: Changing The Conversation, with Kimberly Beam Holmes.
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Kimberly, thank you . What you say about conversation was eye opening . !!
The podcast was great and very on-point. I especially like how you brought scripture into the message. It is a podcast that I will listen to several times. It’s a learning process. Thank You soo much for sharing! God Bless.
OUTSTANDING!!!
I have a horrible habit of interrupting conversations with my comments instead of listening. This has been a part of my PIES that has been a long process for me. When going to be with a group of people, prior I tell myself to listen don’t comment, slip-up and afterwards tell myself – STOP and LISTEN, need to continue. Had a meeting last night and practiced with more awareness of my behavior. With returning to work this will certainly be a HUGE piece of my PIES going to work on.
Excellent message! This is something I’m always working on and can’t hear enough of as the goal here is to connect and love. Im encouraged and inspired..thank you!❤
I thought this has been the best podcast so far- a lot of good information that can be started immediately.
Listened to this on my dog walk this morning. It was brilliant! Really interesting to hear how to improve communication, and that it will take time to change old habits. However, will make a start and see how it goes. Thank you much for this Podcast!
Thank you, all your information has opened my eyes to be a better person and heal from old wounds.